Time is moving. That is the only thing that is certain in life- my life, your life, everybody’s life.
As I’m writing this I’m looking across the street at the house I’ve lived in for 3 years, rocking on a chair on my neighbors front porch (a skill I picked up in the south). I’m awaiting to checkout from Virginia, load the cat into the car, and take off down the road. Literally driving off into the sunset….with my cat. (So not entirely like a cowboy)
Next adventure, new season of life.
Sitting here has me reflecting back on my life in Virginia, thinking about how my life has changed in what seems like such a short amount of time.
Time passing can be overwhelmingly sad. It happens so gradually that, for the most part, it goes by unnoticed, unobserved. You wake up one day and all of a sudden your teeny tiny baby is a two year old or you look in the mirror and wonder “where the heck did these grey hairs come from?” (Two things that are not mutually exclusive by the way)
Time is always moving. Every second, every day.
Big events force you to take notice.
“Holy crap! Wasn’t it just yesterday that we were moving into this house?” You think as you pack the last box into the Uhaul and slam the door shut.
Then ALL the memories come rushing back. Kissing your wife goodbye on her first day of work, bringing your daughters home from the hospital for the first time, seeing the look on your two year olds face when you discover tadpoles by your favorite running trail. So many, many more.
The big moments are BIG but they aren’t the only ones that hit hard. You are especially affected by the everyday moments- the things you got used to Watching the seasons change as you do the same weekly walk around the neighborhood, the front door hugs you are greeted by after a long day of work, cooking a delicious meal with loved ones in the kitchen, playing dinosaur in the living room with your little one. These are the times you took for granted in the moment but now can’t help but look back on with a weird happy-sad nostalgia.They may not have seemed like significant moments as they happened, but you realize that they are the MOST significant. It may be cliche but they are truly what make life worth living.
Sometimes you look back on a season of life in sadness, because that time is gone. Time moved too damn fast, it seems. Other times you just have to smile. You are grateful for the time you had. Great experiences, beautiful life lived.
And you understand that you will have many, MANY more of these moments, of course. In fact, the next season of life will probably be the best one yet!
Most times you are not in control of when your season will change. You don’t know when your eyes will be opened and you will think to yourself “Oh crap…that went quick.” It really does sneak up on you.
So let this serve as an important reminder!
A reminder to stay present and aware of all the beauty that is happening to you right now, in this season of life.
Appreciate the day by day. The little things ARE important! Live your routine, of course, but live it with awareness and purpose. Treat each moment with the respect that it truly deserves. Fully love what you are doing right here, right now. Live each day with passion and you will have no regrets. Do not let self doubt hold you back from becoming the person you are meant to be. Express your gratitude daily. Treat people better than the day before. Love more. Smile more. Laugh more. Give a ridiculous number of hugs.
Time will be moving. That is a fact of life. Make the most of it!